Here's something that might help you understand why difficult things Happen to us sometimes...  

 

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.

One day small opening appeared.

He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours    

as it struggled to force its body through that little

hole. Then it seemed to stop making any

progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as

far as it could, and it could go no

further. So the man decided to help the butterfly.

 

He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the

cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it

had a swollen body and small, shrivelled wings.  

The man continued to watch the butterfly

because he expected that, at any moment,

the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to

support the body, which would contract in time.  

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly 

spent the rest of its life crawling around with 

a swollen body and shrivelled wings.  

It never was able to fly.

  

What the man, in his kindness and haste,

did not understand was that the restricting

cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly

to get through the tiny opening were Allah's way

of forcing fluid from the body of the

butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready

for flight once it achieved its freedom from the

cocoon.

  

Sometimes struggles are

exactly what we need in

our lives. If Allah allowed us to go

through our lives without any obstacles,

it would cripple us.

 

We would not be as strong as what we

could have been. We could never "fly"!

 

 

 

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